Archive for July, 2010

By The Way

Posted in Announcement on July 22, 2010 by Radagast

There’s a link to Lizzie’s Blog over there on the right. I’ve been reading it recently and it’s well-written and most importantly quite honest. Full disclosure: She’s a friend of mine but then again you’re all my friends [cut to picture of me smiling with a little light flare on my tooth and a “ding” sound]

Anyway, go read it along with whatever other blogs are over there. I’m sure some of the links don’t even work anymore but whatever, I’ll fix them eventually.


I Had A Rant Ready To Go

Posted in Article with tags on July 22, 2010 by Radagast

And a funny thing happened on the way to write this blog — I decided to pull it back. Why?

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What’s The Matter With Me?

Posted in Article with tags on July 21, 2010 by Radagast

I am a member and contributor to Fetlife. It is a great place to live, work and visit. However, I’ve noticed that the ratio of my non-kinky posts to kinky posts is heavily skewed towards the non-kinky. Science fiction, books, movies, general snarky comments and, of course, politics. To be quite honest, I really think that my main kink in life is my love of politics — getting down in the mud and mixing it up with people.

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Sunday Musing

Posted in Article with tags on July 18, 2010 by Radagast

The  last post was about a specific incident that happened with a specific friend of mine. As usual, I didn’t mention names because I’d rather keep even the rants about the overall scene rather than about a person or group of people. In the comments section, Indy raised the following question about the benefits and pitfalls of openness on the Internet:

I still have to wonder if it’s possible to have the good of the internet without the bad.

Let’s talk about that.

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A Little More About Drama

Posted in Article with tags on July 14, 2010 by Radagast

I generally don’t like people who insult my friends and I’m especially protective of my scene friends because they are my real family now (as opposed to the people who I happen to share genetic material with). The usual crap is bad enough but now I’ve witnessed a new one that has gotten my dander up a bit.

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OTK Night Tonight

Posted in Announcement with tags , , on July 10, 2010 by Radagast

And the munch precedes it at 5:30pm. Eat a burger at the Moonstruck Diner (9th Av. and 23rd St., NYC) and then go to Paddles for 3 hours of spanking only activities. Participate or just look at people. Your choice.

So You’re Going To Shadow Lane

Posted in Article with tags , on July 8, 2010 by Radagast

I’ve written about meeting people at spanking parties both generally and with more specific advice. Now I’m going to touch upon one specific party but I’ll mention all of them. It is really the Grande Dame of parties and the one that was my first real big party: Shadow Lane.

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