Archive for February, 2010

I Guess There’s Nothing Left To Say

Posted in Article with tags , on February 27, 2010 by Radagast

I’ve had a hell of a time struggling with my writing. I’m not going to blame any outside forces for this because the cause resides within myself. I’m not exactly sure if the well has run dry or not but sometimes it just feels as if what I have to say is not meant for this or any forum. I’ve run along the surface area of my kinkiness and even delved deeper than that as I’ve explored the reasons for why I and many other people are the way they are. I’ve been serious as well as humorous about things but I’ve always been honest — whatever was written here was how I really felt about the subject. I’ve tried to keep things on topic as best I could rather than go off on too many tangents about life and matters non-kinky. Perhaps this was a mistake from the outset. Maybe I should have made this more about whatever happened to be in my head rather than focused upon a narrow list of topics. Who knows?

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My Fill Of Profiles

Posted in Article with tags , , on February 20, 2010 by Radagast

It’s not restricted to Fetlife or any particular kinky social networking site but I feel I have little room in my brain for yet one more personal profile that reads like advertising-on-steroids (or viagra).

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The Weekend Updated

Posted in Article with tags , , on February 14, 2010 by Radagast

My wife, Sandy (or Cassandra as she is also known) did her first video shoot for Punished Brats yesterday. From what I understand, all went well. I look forward to seeing these scenes for the bonus reason that I have a thing for female spanks female videos. I also have a thing for female spanks male videos and male spanks male videos. The only thing I don’t really watch a lot of is male spanks female — that I like to participate in rather than watch.

There was a party last night hosted by MSA (Manhattan Spanking Association) which I had planned on attending but unfortunately, vanilla life gets in the way. One of our cats is ill and it’s quite possible that this is it. It’s very difficult for me to go through this only a couple of months past my mother’s death and a little over a year after my brother passed away. I was never a big pet owner other than a brief period in my early teens when my family had a dog. We had to put that dog down because of a head injury he sustained falling down the stairs that gave him something akin to epilepsy. So I went about 35 years between having a dog and then being the adopted owner of my wife’s two cats. I was never a cat person but have grown to like them and especially these two. It’s difficult to think about letting go because of the empty space it leaves in my life — one more empty space. We will make the proper decision whatever it is but that does not make it any easier to palate.

It’s tough to write about the spanking scene or BDSM or any of this crap at the moment but I will try in a few days. Thanks for listening.

Speak Free Or Die

Posted in Article with tags on February 10, 2010 by Radagast

First read this short news item then follow me after the flip for an angry rant.

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OTK Night Is On (Now With Update)

Posted in Announcement with tags , , on February 6, 2010 by Radagast

It’s not going to snow that much in NYC today as far as the people making the forecasts are concerned. The radar map doesn’t look too bad either. So it seems our friends to the south, especially in the Baltimore, D.C. and Pennsylvania areas took it on the chin for us here in New York. I just want to acknowledge that point and say, “Thanks”.

OTK Night and the munch that precedes it are on for tonight — a couple of inches of snow (maybe) are not going to get in our way. I’m bringing a couple of items for a door-prize raffle — DVDs and such. I ask that no one bring their own stuff to add to it but we will have a sort of swap-meet in the future some time. The only stipulation for tonight is that even though the tickets will be handed out at the munch, the actual raffle will take place at Paddles around 8pm.

I ask spankos in the NYC vicinity to come out tonight and support the new and improved Paddles — feel free to meet us at the Moonstruck Diner (on 23rd St. and 9th Av.) at 5:30pm to break bread. As always, we will be in the back room conveniently near the toilets.

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Do I Fit In?

Posted in Article with tags , , , on February 3, 2010 by Radagast

Do I care?

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