How Did This Happen?

I had a completely different post ready to go for today but I need to revise it a bit — it was a sequel to yesterday’s discussion. Perhaps that one will go for tomorrow or Monday. However, I wanted to write something and since FMS is on my mind, I thought I’d throw this out there because it just popped into my head.

Both my wife and I have been thinking that we’re going to take it easy this time around and only play with those people we want to play with or have standing plans prearranged. Sounds like a plan until I think about how many people that is and come up with eight or nine. Wait a minute?!? Eight or nine? How did that happen? That doesn’t even take into account spontaneous stuff that just sort of occurs at the drop of a hat.

Now, I’m not saying that all of these things will happen — sometimes ships pass in the night and plans get waylaid but these are people I absolutely desire to play with. Oh, well — I guess I’ll have to cut into my beach time (heh-heh).


6 Responses to “How Did This Happen?”

  1. Anything special you do to manage to manage the desire and keep it long enough for 8 or 9?

  2. sandy richards Says:

    There are worse problems, Rad. A beach, a hotel of spanko, and too many potential partners. Yeah, that’s rough. lol.

    Actually, you’ve brought up something that I’ve been thinking a lot about. In the past, I’ve felt as if I’ve over-played at parties because I do like a lot of people, and I feel bad saying “no” to someone who is a nice person.

    But I need to strike a balance. These are play parties, and I need to make time for both the play and the party. I worry that people might feel slighted if I don’t play with them as often, but I’m embracing my “all things in moderation” mantra.

    • radagast Says:

      I know there are worse problems and my post was pretty tongue in cheek but not totally. I go to these parties and see people I don’t get to play with regularly so I schedule time for them. Then there are people I do see regularly that for one reason or other don’t play with as often as I’d like — so I schedule time for them. Then there are the ones that are impromptu or people I am seeing for the first time who desire to play with me and vice versa — make time for them. Put that all together and it’s a full schedule.

  3. *sandy_richards…I am beginning to think we are twins because that was the first thought that popped into my head….such problems!!!

    However, I do understand what you are saying Rad. It is hard to go to an event like FMS and also find time for yourself to relax. Of course the more people you meet and get to know, the less time you have.

    Whatever you get to do I hope you and Cassandra have a great time.

  4. I am sort of in the same mind-frame this time. I plan to say a lot more “no” at this party than I ever have before. Not out of meanness or badness but just because it can be exhausting to be negotiating spanking/being spanked 12 hours a day. šŸ™‚ There are certainly worse problems and I don’t take my good fortune for granted, but yeah, I am committed to only accepting the invitations to play that I fully have the time and the inclination for.

    I have a few half-baked posts sitting in my drafts on these party related subjects, like bratting, the pity-spanking, the horrors of the Lurk, etc. I may try to edit them all together into one big Things About Parties post.

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