Punishment From A Distance
Some thoughts on non-spanking punishments when you’re not even there.
And I don’t mean writing lines although that is a popular one. There is a punishment that I’ve handed out only a couple of times in my life but that provides me a headspace when I’m not even in the vicinity of the person being punished.
R, the woman for whom I’m “daddy”, was being her bad self and very willful emailing back and forth with me. I was conveying to her how displeased I was about something she had done and what was going to happen to her once I got a hold of her. She was being very resistant to even the notion that she needed punishment and I told her she needed to be punished right that minute. “Good thing you’re over there”, she said.
I told her that I was not happy with her behavior and that part of her punishment was going to be carried out without me even being there. I told her to get up and go to her bedroom, closing the door behind her. Then I said that she had to go to the far corner of the room, take her jeans and panties down, and stand facing the corner for ten minutes. I told her to then come back to her computer and tell me she had done it.
Can I prove that she did it? Nope. She could have just sat there at the computer doing whatever she wanted for ten minutes and then lying. However, if the headrush for her was as strong as the one for me then I would expect that she did it just to give herself that feeling of being punished she likes so much.
What was the excitement for me? The idea of controling someone and making them do what I’m telling them to do even if I’m not there really gets to me. It’s a slightly weaker version of the headspace I have when I’m physically Topping someone – that sense that at that moment, I’m in charge of what’s happening.