I Don’t Watch Many Kinky Videos

When it was one of my few outlets, I bought and watched a ton of videos. Not so much any more.

Truth be told, I don’t watch many videos of any kind let alone kinky ones. I used to be an avid fan of movies and of TV but over the past few years I’ve felt little desire to take the time to watch anything whether at home or going to the movies. Have I had my fill? Am I just not willing to commit to the time necessary to sit still and be an inactive participant? When I do make myself watch a DVD, I’m usually quite engaged and end up enjoying it – it’s getting me to the point where I’m watching that’s the chore.

Kinky videos of various kinds are a little easier to watch these days. It seems that many companies have the option of watching the video online or downloading it to your computer. It is very convenient for the consumer. My issue is that a lot of them don’t really scratch my itch as much as they used to do. Now that I’m doing rather than just watching, I find that I’m less interested in merely watching. I also bounce hard off of videos where the actors are, in effect, winking at the camera or being comedic or over-the-top about their performance.

What works for me are videos that portray something in a very serious manner – almost scary (which a punishment is supposed to be rather than cutesy). That’s not to say that I don’t want the participants to convey emotions, just the right emotions. Scolding should have at least a hint of anger, a person being punished should seem scared rather than bored or coming across as a mannequin. I also like a story to make “sense” within the confines of the scene being portrayed. It doesn’t have to make sense in the real world we live in (and often doesn’t) but it should be presented as “really happening” in the video.

Yes, I know, a lot of opinions from a person who hasn’t tried to do any video production himself. All of this is merely my opinion and probably doesn’t reflect the way other folks feel about the issue. Enjoyment of any art is highly subjective and what works for one person doesn’t work for another.

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2 Responses to “I Don’t Watch Many Kinky Videos”

  1. It’s been at least 3 months since I’ve watched a kinky video, but for YEARS they were my only link to the scene. My husband would go away on business, and come home with a spanking video for me. In fits and starts I’ve thrown the originals away, but most were Shadow Lane, so I’ve replenished my supply as time went on with DVD.

    They don’t mean as much or hold as much fascination as they did before I started in the scene “for real”, but they will always have a place in my heart.

  2. radagast Says:

    I said in another comment that my tastes have gotten more “extreme” especially regarding regular porn (if there is such a thing). My tastes have also changed with spanking videos as I’ve gotten more experienced and/or jaded. The things that used to turn me on don’t anymore and I look for things that “surprise” me in some way.

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